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Affairs are like jobs—we should-be competent to start out one.
Unfortunately, we enter connections with the goal of finding our other half or perhaps to end the loneliness we have been feeling.
The thing is, many folks changes couples as frequently as we change our underwear. We leap from a single relationship to another, without really examining all of our mind and thoughts.
I must say I think that the essential profitable interactions are those in which both couples has authentically worked tirelessly on their self-development. No video games, no blaming without drama at all. Only a real partnership in which both parties know who they are and what they need.
Being stop the routine of hit a brick wall relationships, we have to begin working on our selves.
Based on my own experiences, I consider the principles below as essential in starting a fruitful, long-term commitment: